Hopefully this isn't in regards to the diaper stuff I keep hearing about? Either way it might not be a good idea to disclose certain things publicly. I can't speak for anyone else's reaction to it, I'm a little out of touch with pop culture, but using memey 4chan lingo to describe your problem might also not get a great response, I would assume it might get people to take you less seriously if you're using words like that to describe your trauma.

This isn't about ABDL but about other stuff that is allowed here yet. I just keep getting younger adults like me that have "proship DNI" in bio following me and that makes me a bit upset as someone who also had this thing because I couldn't really accept kinks I had at the time and was afraid of bullying. I apologize for the lingo here but that's how I always talk about my stuff, I understand if it sounds like minimalization of the traumatic experiences, but I don't talk about others experiences like that

Okay cool, thanks for clarifying! Yeah I think it's quite common for people to pick up kinks when they're younger through various life experiences. Wouldn't make much sense if they spontaneously manifested at age 25 or something, would it? I'm sorry you're running into folks that conflict with your ideals, and I understand how it can be distressing, I never really figured out how to deal with it in a completely comfortable way either. The anti-sex sentiment in particular seems like a really common one and I don't think it's healthy either, but it's an inevitability that groups cross path on occasion.

uh, not really. that term includes this kinda stuff but it’s overall used to describe everything that’s considered taboo in fiction: violence, abuse, incest, noncon, and, yes, this kinda stuff too.

Idk who you are and I’m not arguing with something so obviously wrong. Bye bye

That's my bro who lives with me and he's right. Various dictionaries say that it's basically just the "I won't harass over ships" mindset. What you've described is lolisho, which, yes, falls into that too. I'm not using any labels from this disk horse because this is a complicated topic and just 2 polar opposite terms don't fully cover it, imo. I'd say if that's a victim projecting their feelings through that sort of art, then I'm very much fine about it, because trauma responses can be very much weird. Context of who exactly draws it is important to me. Is it some traumatized young queer who is coping by recreating situation in a safe state or is it someone who is actually dangerous in life. The latter may fall into antiship rhetoric too to DARVO the victim (Kyle Carrozza and Ang), so what I'm saying is those 2 labels aren't descriptors if the person is bad or good by default, I've been jumping back-and-forth between all sides and met different kinds of people everywhere, but in my experience I felt less mentally stable when I was trying to be an anti. Again, that's just my experience

If proship were to be used in its true definition, “don’t like, look away,” every ship would be proship. But through observation, it’s clear that it’s just people trying to normalize having sex with animals and children. From what I know, you are not that.
If you do associate with the label, I would very much prefer to keep my distance. Using the label tells me “hey, I’m okay with everything else this community identifies as,” just like an animal lover wouldn’t associate with the zoophilic community.
I am a cultural anthropologist + archaeologist and have put lots of studying into this stuff, so kindly reconsider or leave me alone 😭 I would much prefer to be blocked

yk what I’m not going to associate with this enabling, I’m sorry, I really thought you had better morals than this man. It’s up to you to improve and I’m hoping you do, its a shame to see a mutual go down this path

man some people really are missing the point.

Yeah lol