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I hope we can be friends
11 years ago
Is one of the creepiest and quickest ways to make someone who doesn't know you not wanna be friends with you.
I've gotten lines like that from people in the past and it always makes me think that the reason for wanting to be friends has nothing to do with being friends, but what that relationship can get someone access too.
Guys, Gals, and It's, Friendship is a naturally occurring phenomenon resulting from the collaboration of multiple circumstances between beings, not a Job Application.
Edit:: Folks need to learn that if you wanna be friends with someone, just act like one from the start, don't ask for a consensual agreement. Either things will work out or they won't.
Double Edit::
~Drayk
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puts her friendship resume away
stares @ u
so NO
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ae50P_ajLxA
Why must the fandom consists mainly of nimrods and nincompoops <
(for the people who fall into these categories this is sweet talk for calling you stupid)
"Hey I hope we can be friends by (such and such date)"
"Why?"
"Well that's when my birthday is"
That closer? XD
Oh sorry, thought I was on F-list. :U
Nothing wrong with that, beyond the fact that MOST creepers tend to use this line. Doesn't make it mutually exclusive for creepers only.~
but those first 2.. the fuck people
As for skype, I had a few people that tried getting close to me just for me to draw/buy them stuff <_< I am getting more cautious as time passes.
No, cause ya forgetting "if I know more about you, I now have MORE things to dislike about you"
And my least fave "Are you friends with <insert person here>?" Why yes, but now I wont befriend you cause you obviously you wish to use me to get to that person.
"Why do you draw more for them than you do for me!!?!??!"
"Because they're not a whiny cunt"
A. I buy them art they want, B. they proceed to draw me something as a thanks, C. I then proceed to thank them by getting more art of what they want, repeat B and C forever...we been stuck in this cycle for 6 years out of the 8 years of friendship we have. Its the big reason why I fail to get the other 32 characters I own cause I often prioritize something for synx over something for me.
Subject: hi
Note: how are you?
... until you plan to use it to summon the Dark Lords for nefarious purposes.
this journal. so much this
And this is crazy
But here's my number
Call me maybe?
I couldn't help it. I had that blaring in my head the moment I read this journal.
Sometimes this does not work either. I can ask a friend, "Hey, what you up to?" But is someone I am not familiar with comes up and asks, "Hey, what you up to?" I may be inclined to ask, "Who are you and what business is it of yours?" Or if I am standing and chatting with some close friends outside or in some public venue and some stranger walks up and starts including themselves in our conversation, it can be rather off-putting and sometimes just rude.
I like your original statment indicating that true frinedships are earned and not just handed out.
Then there is being social and polight. I always strive to be friendly with the furry community as there is already a common interest. I reply to ALL my Notes and Emails in a timely manner but in some situation this is also mistaken for RL friendships instead of just common courtesy.
I also dislike the people who talk to you once, the only conversation you had was one like that; "Hello, how are you? I hope we can be friends." which I don't find to be weird at all personally....until the constant talking as if we WERE best friends, this guy telling people we are, then being all butthurt when he can't get something from me or I won't respond to him in a way that says we're best friends. Then when I politely tell him this exact thing, that friendship happens, you don't just apply for it and it doesn't happen overnight. I don't become best friends with people over the span of two days with very little conversation. That's just as bad as the people on here that fall in love and find their "soulmate" after dating someone for a day.
then came the harrassment, but because it was "friendly" I was supposed to just take it all in stride. Then when I blocked him, he said the reason I did was because I smoke weed.
If you can't even get the stoner who loves everyone to be all buddy buddy with you...then you PROBABLY should keep moving. Guy was just tooo creepy.
AAAAAAAAND I rambled.
My cousin was five.
"I'm naked so I'm the boss."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdtD19tXX30
>..>
<..<
*licks your elbow and walks away*
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnDZbWg4Lek
make it natural, feel it natural, relate naturally, then things work to their own pace and in their own way
well, you can always release yourself into a true friendship and develop it to all the posibilities it can wield, just be honest and direct
Now what do I do?!?
wat
Even if it isn't exclusively a creeper thing, it makes things really weird and makes you a not-someone-I-want-to-get-to-know person.
Just for the record though, that line is a little iffy, and quite frankly, it doesn't tend to work out. For those who are wondering why:
When someone says they hope to be friends, that automatically implies that you're not exactly the friend making type and that you likely haven't had success with friend making throughout your life. Personally, I would much rather you point that out than say "I hope we can be friends", that's WAAAAAY too vague. Also, you have a point in saying that friendship doesn't happen overnight, you are not entitled to someone's trust, you have to EARN it.
Tl;DR Try not to stereotype everyone to being creepy, some genuinely aren't good at making friends, but if you know you're not, then don't just sit there and try your tactic until it works, try to figure out how to do it right.
You can say that sentence but make sure its after a while in the process of getting to know each other or at the end of a higher relationship, NEVER at the start as it just puts people on edge these days. (specially in fandoms)
And talking about social awkwardness, I guess the fact that many awkward people end up in the furry community as there is no where else to go is probably not helping. I can only give them few hints and smile at them, but probably not call them friends... these poor souls. I'm probably part of them too, I'm not sure.
Deko out!
I also got this guy who says "I want to be more to you" to me and that's just... something. Even after I told them I'm with someone he still tries it. THEN WONDERS WHY I DON'T WANT TO TALK
forcedblussssssh* >////////<i like u so so muchie. u so sexy. sexy dwaggie. sexy scalie woof woof *Licks LICKS LICKS SLURRRRRP*
really REALLY
REALLYlike u *Kisse kissssseseses* .. I WANNA YIFF U. TOUCH U ALL NITE. RP, RP, AND RP. BE MY MATE.one day i will meet u at a con and we can touchie touchie grope and yiff yaff *WAGS WAGS HUGS* >////>
Lets be friends.. OR ELSE
That's how they do it, right?
PS, can we be butt-friends?
Or friends with benefits in Zaryn's case~
Fucking pervert
What is your greatest fear? _____________
What is your weakest skill? _____________
What games are you bad at? ___________
What things do you not like doing? _____
Describe why I should accept you as a friend?
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xP
hi
how are you
good
*30 minutes later*
sup what ya doing?
I"M JERKING OFF YOU LITTLE SHIT >:V
I'm gonna show you where the wild goose goes.
I feel it's a positive, but noncommital statement.
https://soundcloud.com/lance_herbst.....billy-squier-x
I feel like we've got this bond growing now...
...is that creepier than I hope we can be friends? :P
Personally I think a lack of exposure of facial expression, body language, and (personal idealism here) scent of the person leaves internet denizens painfully obvious. Mostly because some folk have to.
Unless one is truly capable of conveying their mindset into words, as most folk are not, the wish to avoid "gray areas" in social interaction become more apparent with obvious comments such as; "I think you're sexy", "I want to be your friend", or even opposites like "I hate you".
I'm just curious if this has any correlation with just who browses fur sites (and any social issues that follow) or if it's just people as a whole.